Thursday, January 15, 2015

Three Months

I don't want to get all mushy or romantic on here, but I have this blog to share things that mean something to me; things that make me smile, things that make my heart happy, and things that I want to be able to look back on and remember. This next post is one of those moments.

I recently shared a date with my best friend. A date to mark teamwork that has been intentional for three months.

As I work through life with my best friend by my side, I figure out that each adventure is the new best.. I can't help but think that our adventures can't get any better. I mean, I have my best friend as my adventure partner.  But each little outing and big adventure is better than the last, a time full of fun, laughter, and learning a little more about the other.

The date to celebrate this 3 month milestone may just be my favorite adventure yet. I have to write it down because I want to be able to look back on and remember the happiest of times when I'm older and wiser even if to laugh at my younger self.  Chances are there will have been some rough patches by then because well, it's life and its not all butterflies and perfect dates, but that doesn't mean it's not true and wont last. Truth is, this means something to me and I want to be able to look back and see what I genuinely felt as a 19year old college freshman who was falling in love with her best friend.

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I was picked up around 5/6  after Alan's first day at his new job. I was instructed to bring a couple of blankets and we could leave. I grabbed my favorite quilt and headed to his car, he opened the passenger door like a gentleman and we headed out on our newest adventure.

We were both dressed a little spiffy and frankly a little like preppy hipsters as we hit the town in layers, cardigans, and sweaters. We hit the road hand in hand, talking about our days while listening to an adventure playlist on Spotify. Our first stop was Panda Express, where we ordered take-out before hitting market street where I got a mango smoothie and he got a coffee. Next we found a parking garage where we climbed to the roof of and had a picnic. A Chinese take out picnic with chopsticks and fortune cookies. It was chilly, but we made the most of it, joking, laughing, enjoying the view and each others company. It was so romantic the way the wind blew my hair into my face and I started to choke on it(note sarcasm here).. but despite my awkward self, we were on top of the world. We even had a fake candle app to make it more cliche.. It was perfect. I gave him the next set of legos and my heart couldn't help but smile when I saw his face light up upon receiving them.

It got a little chilly and I had a blanket, so I did what any other normal person would have done...turn it into a cape and run around the rooftop. I'm so glad Alan accepts my weirdness. Talk turned to the best cream soda,  little blue french horns, and old times making jello and it seemed that the most reasonable next step of the date was to go to Walmart and buy blue jello. So we did. We picked up Blue jello and sea creature molds then stopped by sonic to grab some ice cream before heading home.

We finished the night by coloring and making way too much jello. We laughed together as my family all crowded in the kitchen as I introduced Alan to Rhett and Link on youtube. I walked him out and after running in to retrieve his keys, he walked out to me planking on his car..

It was full of quirks and maybe even a few cheesy cliches, but it was so full of us and I really can't think of any way the night could have been better. He is my favorite and I really love sharing my life with him.

Three months..
Here's to many more.



Here's a little something I put together to commemorate my perfect evening with my best friend.

Tuesday, January 13, 2015

Sweet Songs, Smiles, and Sparklers

Looking back on last year and all it brought with it, I really learned to appreciate true friendships and making the most of the days we are given. I recently stumbled upon a new song by JJ Heller and fell in love.

It's beautiful lyrics paint a picture of fresh starts and focusing on what's important.

I want to take a moment to pray the lyrics on this upcoming year, then show you a little something that makes me smile.

This year
I’m not looking back to who I was
Because I’m gonna be someone
I’ve never been
This year
I’m not focused on the cracks in the walls
Not keeping track of all the times I fall
This year

[Chorus:]
So long to last year
It’s all becoming so clear
There is no use living in regret
Let’s fight a good fight
Train our eyes to find the light
That makes this year the best one yet!
Starting right here
Happy New Year! Happy New Year!

This year
I plan on thinking less of "I" and "me"
I resolve to think of "us" and "we"
This year
I can’t wait to see what good will come
To feel alive instead of feeling numb
This year

[Chorus x2:]
So long to last year
It’s all becoming so clear
There is no use living in regret
Let’s fight a good fight
Train our eyes to find the light
That makes this year the best one yet!
Starting right here
Happy New Year! Happy New Year!



Dear Daddy,
 Thank you so much for the past year of my life.
Thank you for the change, the growth, the hurt, and the happy.
Thank you for blessing me with the beginning of a new year and a chance to start fresh.
I Pray that you help me focus on the here and now rather than on the yesterday and back then. I pray that you help me let go of the hurt and frustrations. I pray that you help me focus less on who I was and more on who I am and can be. I pray that you help me to be the woman that you created me to be, not just who I wish I was.
Lord, help me to let go of the negatives and not focus on the broken or cracked. I will fall, I am human and make mistakes. Help me not to focus on my failings and focus instead on how you make me new and tell me that I am yours.
God I am letting go of the past and giving you my future. Thank you for helping me realize that there is no benefit in living in the past. Help me to live today to it's fullest and make the most of this new year you've so graciously given me.
God, help me to be more selfless, to get rid of myself and put on you. Help me to have a servants heart and to desire to love and care for the least of these, "the others". God, I am so excited to see what amazing and growing things you bring this next year. I pray that you fill me with your life and love and help me to overflow it to onto others. I pray you replace me with you. 
God I Give you all the friends, hurt, pain, anger, and confusion of the past year. I release my stubborn grip and let you have it. I don't want to be bound by it anymore. I don't want to be prisoner to regret, "what if", or "I could have". I want to run the race with my eyes ahead and focused on you and you alone. I want to give you my all and go out swinging.

Lord help me to live 2015 to the fullest. To love limitlessly, to give endlessly, to hope unfailingly. Help me dive into your love and mercy. I choose you Today.

Amen




Here is the result of a little creativity, fun, laughter, friendship, and fireworks. I hope you enjoy it as much as we did making it.

     




Hope your new year is full of growth and blessings!

Monday, January 12, 2015

Open Roads

Recently I embarked on a great adventure.
Best friends, a Honda, and a traveling gnome. 
 Open Roads, Open Skies, Open Minds and we ventured out and embraced it. 









We decided to spend the last week we both had free to drive up through Tennessee to visit Memphis and Nashville. 
We would stop in Hot Springs and camp, then drive to memphis for two days, then camp in Nashville for a couple days, finish up there and stop to camp in Missouri on the way back home. 
We made a plan, routed, budgeted, and shopped, the weather was supposed to stay above 33 so we were all set. 
Also, Poppy The traveling Gnome joined us on our adventure and He will have another post of his very own, very soon.



The plan didn't last long, and 8 states later, our structured trip truly evolved into an adventure. 


Day 1: We set out in the morning and took to the roads, ready for the journey..or so we thought. The first day was spent driving out of Texas and into Arkansas. We made a couple of stops for breakfast and to play tag in random parking lots just because we could. 
We arrived in Hot Springs early in the evening and got to explore a bit. Our GPS took us into another section of the park so we took a few moments to play on a giant see-saw and race on out-of-bounds RC runways. We walked the town, awed by the steaming fountains and street drains and toured the bathhouse which was very interesting, then headed to set up camp. It was a bit rough because the weather had already slipped past the forecasted low and was still dropping. After setting up the campsite we ventured out for dinner and came across a New York style pizza place nestled  in the back streets of little Hot Springs. We ate to our heart's (or rather our belly's) content and settled in for the night. 
Mr. Sam Houston


Perfect venue for a game of tag

Perry took over when Alan got sleepy



Breakfast Selfies




Hot Springs National Park

Yay for giant see-saws
Hot springs
Hot Guy :)



Old fashioned gym

Tiny door
We filled up with spring water


Sun set over Hot Springs

Poppy enjoying the view






Day 2: We woke up to frost coated tents. The temps had dropped down below 21 and the day was hard to start, but nonetheless we packed up and made our way up to the observation tower. From three stories up we could see all of Hot Springs. Next we drove to Memphis where we had a Picnic lunch on the Mississippi River. We settled in at the cabin, made a spaghetti and meatball dinner together then hit the town. Being in Memphis, we wanted to check out Beale Street. Turns out it was really cold and most venues were 21+ so we did what we could; which mostly meant ordering soda and finding other ways to entertain ourselves. This is where the Planking was born. From then on, we made a habit out of planking random places throughout the rest of the trip. 
Cozy morning

Chilly morning


Hot springs from observation tower




















Cooking 


Beale street



The planking begins:
Location: Beale Street 

Day 3: On the second day in Memphis Alan came to my room and woke me up early and we watched the sun rise through the trees before we went back to our rooms to sleep for a couple more hours. I woke up to Alan cooking my favorite breakfast, biscuits and gravy, he is the best.  What a day! A few of my favorite things all in one morning. After breakfast I got to try out my new hammock which made for a nice, relaxing morning. We headed back into the town to visit and tour the Gibson Guitar factory. I don't know much about guitars, but I love music and was really entertained by the tour. I really loved seeing how happy it made Alan to play the guitars. After our tour, we found a grassy park area near a church and had a picnic lunch. This was a really pleasant moment, having a picnic lunch with my best friend in Memphis...that is until we were approached by a man who claimed it was his birthday. Long story short, some guy, an inmate most likely, was prayed over and we were short three more dollars and a partial bag of chips. We knew he was deceiving us, but it wasn't worth the trouble.. It was a little frustrating and a shaking experience.. the rest of the day went similarly. It was growing colder and we both started to feel a little under the weather and frankly bummed. Back at the cabin we figured we would redeem the day with cookies and a fire in the fireplace. Unfortunately the firewood was wet and the cookies were crappy and our spirits still low. The solution? Panda. Panda Express, the solution to any bad day.  






Location: Cabin in Memphis










Safety is first in the guitar factory



Poppy liked Gibson

My guy

Backwards planking
Location: Memphis adjacent to Beale
My Eagle Scout and his fire


Day 4: After a breakfast of bacon and eggs, we finished up in memphis with the National Civil Right's museum. That was really cool, it was bizarre standing so close to where Martin Luther King Jr. was shot.. so crazy. What's Memphis without some BBQ? We had lunch at a little BBQ place before moving on towards Nashville. The expected low for the night was 5 degrees, so camping did not sound appealing and we began looking for other lodging options. We discovered Alan has a cousin nearby who offered us a place to stay in her apartment. We arrived in Nashville a little late to really do anything, so we decided to try the Adventure Science Center. We got the discount price, but only had 20 minutes before they closed. Turns out that was the best 20 minutes of the whole trip. Running around a science center with my best friend was so much fun and ABSOLUTELY worth the 6 dollars. Unfortunately, I dropped my drivers license somewhere and they closed so I couldn't get it back and now we were in Nashville and I had no ID. We found a really neat coffee shop and discovered they sold Virgil's Cream Soda, which is by far the best I've ever tasted. We explored the catacombs of the building the coffee shop was in and came across a distillery. Obviously we couldn't drink anything and to be honest, I didn't want to drink anything, but we thought it would be kinda cool to take the tour. They had to check our IDs because there is a tasting portion of the tour that we would have to opt out of if we were under 21. This was fine with me, but I had totally forgotten that I had left my ID at the science center..so this is basically how the embarrassing encounter went down:
The man: "Can I see your ID?" 
Me: "um..actually I just left my ID at a children's museum."

..It was so embarrassing...Not because I couldn't taste the alcohol, but because it sounded like I was making an excuse for the fact that I was under-age. 
Anyway, after the tour we went to a little burger joint in town called The Pharmacy and wow, what good burgers! We decided to continue the fun by planking in front of the sign and after maybe the funniest mishap ever, we continued onward to meet Alan's cousin Laura. 


I was standing in Africa!


Rosa Parks














Out that window is where Martin Luther King Jr. was shot, to the right was the last room he stayed in before he died







The artery exhibit at the Adventure Science Center

Pre Plank

The effort

"I'll just stand here and be the normal one"

"actually, I'll try"
Location: The Pharmacy

whoops

Day 5: We started out the day touring the little town where Laura goes to school and it was quite fun; coffee, depots, and antique stores. I called the Science center to give them my information in case they found my ID and told them we would stop by later that day before heading to GA. We had donuts for breakfast at two different donut shops because theres an ongoing debate in the town over which is best. We took part in the out-of-towners taste test(not actually a real thing) and came up with our favorite of the two.

We recommend Ralph's.

 After breakfast and exploring, we headed to Georgia. My dad lives there and after a recent reunion and effort to be a dad again I figured it would be nice to see him. So since it was too cold to camp and he offered a place for us to stay, we headed to stay with my father. When Loading the car, I saw my face poking out from beneath the passenger seat, MY ID!! It was a praise God moment.. He had definitely answered prayers. We traveled through Chattanooga and walked through the battle site and there was an AMAZING view! After watching the sun set on the town we headed back down and stopped by this really cute little BBQ place where I tried BBQ Tacos for the first time. Pretty Good. After Good food and Good laughs we headed to GA. We arrived at my Dad's Just in time for homemade pizza. It was a little quiet because we are all pretty quiet, it was really nice to see him again. Also, snaps to Alan for staying with strangers just to be support for me. 

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Location: train car in Cookeville













Day 6: The last day. We slept in and it was a slow morning. Had a very nice breakfast prepared by my father before heading out. But not before we were given gas money and lots of snacks. Onward we went. With a long driving day ahead we took to the roads. We stopped for coffee and planked with Poppy(which had a tragic ending) then drove down through Atlanta, then Alabama, and we were so close to Pensacola that we thought "why not?!?". We drove down and watched the sun set over the water while dancing and playing in the white sand. We walked out into the water, it was super chilly, but totally worth it. So Worth it. We had a quick dinner at Whataburger before driving home. 
It was a long day of driving, and we made it home around 3AM, but it was a great trip and Such an awesome adventure. I couldn't have asked for a better traveling companion or best friend. 

A happy reunion

Poppy likes coffee

He's my favorite

Got a mug from mugs

Location: Mugs coffee in Georgia

Poppy wanted to plank.. then he had an accident and broke his leg off

THe sun set as we came over the bridge into Pensacola












Poppy likes the white sand beach








Just a Few more random travel/Scenic shots

















It got a little cold I guess...
















Location: Random place in Tennessee with an AWESOME view!

States visited:
Texas
Arkansas
Tennessee
Georgia
Alabama
Florida
Mississippi
Louisiana



It may have been a crazy idea that turned into a crazy adventure, but I couldn't have asked for a better person to spend it with nor would I trade it or him for anything.


Heres to Adventure, my life teammate, adventure partner, and best friend.